WHAT IS YOUR VIEW ABOUT LOVE/RELATIONSHIP - THEY ARE ABOUT TO CHANGE



1. PEOPLE FIND TRUE  LOVE IN THE STRANGEST PLACES:
     Often times most people are quick to decide for themselves where  they would like to fine their better half ( true love). So they choose places like the church, higher institutions, big shopping malls, 5star hotels just name it.
         They try as much as possible to avoid certain places like the bar, gambling center, the night club or the surbub. The truth is true love (by the way still very much exist ) resides anywhere and every where, waiting for you to just take the chance backed with a good course then let nature lead you to him or her.
         Statistics has it that its easier for a man to fall in love with a woman he met in a wrecking train than in a calm one.

2. LOVE IS THE REASON MOST PEOPLE WED:
      As against 20% who just want kids and nothing more, 10% who seek for  political positions, and 20% due to social and family pressure its been a fact that 50% of those who tire the knot  do so because they simply fell in love with each other. And needed to be together till death set them apart.
       Got me thinking maybe the first lovers never planed to make babies....somehow they accidentally discovered that making babies where never intended but simply the outcome of making love.

3. MEN FALL FASTER IN LOVE, BUT WOMEN FALL DEEPER:
      Yes this is all too natural to think twice about. Men have it in them to easily fall in LOVE with women , hence always being the first to say 'I love you'.
     This seldom is the case for the ladies as  around their fancy world stands a wall that would take a thousand years to crack, and when cracked just 30min to breakdown why?.
      A woman's heart is 77 ×7 times more sensitive, emotional and fragile hence the protection they set up. But once a woman falls in love she becomes submissive and puts in everything and with lots of sensitivity and tender she becomes the most vulnerable.

4. SOME PEOPLE JUST CAN'T FALL IN LOVE:
   Do not judge me too fast,  research  has it that some individuals who claim never to have felt romantic love suffer from  HYPOPITUITARISM a rare disease that doesn't allow a person to feel the rapture of love.
   Please do not let them get you infected.

5. LOVE IS THE SHEEP, EMOTION IS THE WOLF:
    This is very important, confusing, killing and misleading. For instance  some people tends to fall  deeper in love with a person who had just dumped them. Why?
      Some persons love for their friend or lover doubles when they translate.
      Some people get mad and wish their lover would just go away,  but they be like while going, do not forget to take me with you.
      Sometimes we confuse emotions for true love, lust is a pure example. Mastering your emotion and diffrenciating them from true love is key.
       Love runs a marathon, while emotions runs a Sprint.

6 LOVE IS CHAOS:
Going into too much details might sound contradicting. So am going to let you do the maths, now unscramble  this.
  'The symbol of love, Cupid ( or Eros ) is said to have come from Chaos (the yawning void) and represents  the primitive force of love and desire'
   So you see? when some persons have misunderstanding or scream at their loved ones its not because they do not love them, it's simply all in the mix.
      So? Feel free to receive the best of slap and punches its all for love.

7 LOVE WILL TRIUMPH:
 Sometimes people  walk up to me and say. 'True love does not exist ' they be like you are deceiving yourself just be a Casanova.
    Well I reply them by asking does hate exist?, does evil exist? Their answers offcurse  is always yes, and then I say ' LOOK   WITHIN THESE YOU WOULD FIND LOVE'
     Love is in every heart , we sometimes simply fail to express it or even let it express itself.
 When a person finds genuine love, when you feel this pure and detached  kind of love then you had be in  a better position to agree.
It's a feeling that nobody but your self can confirm, it's like a transforming power,  a mind and consciousness  changer,
 So long as you have the special one by your side, you both would be in your own world. It's not easy to find one tho, worst still is the fact that  some time THEY ARE NOT FOUND BUT MADE. So if you can't find one, then make one, and if you can't make any, then simply be one .

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  1. This is an eye opener.

    Thanks Boma Joel.

    "men fall faster in love but women fall deeper" ������

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